My daughter is very active in youth leadership at our church. I am proud of her for serving and getting involved. I see her growing and cultivating her talent of compassion; learning to place others before herself. This past weekend, she attended a conference and the parents were asked to write a letter of encouragement or prayer to be given to them during one of their devotional sessions. She gave me permission to publish the letter I wrote to her in hopes that it will help others.
To My Sweet Girl,
There is a poem in one of those books I love to read by Grace Livingston Hill that I want to share with you:
“Charge not yourself with the weight of a year, child of the Master, faithful and dear.
Choose not the cross for the coming week, for that is more than He bids you seek.
Bend not your arms for tomorrow’s load, just leave that to your gracious God.
Daily ONLY, He says to thee, ‘Take up thy cross and follow me’.”
It means to focus on serving Him today and no more. We all have our own cross to bear; have our own personal struggles. God gives you daily what you need. “Charge not yourself with the weight of a year” means don’t take on a year’s worth of burdens, don’t take on the hard times, the “what ifs” and the “what might happens” that are later on down the road. Live for Him for today. Live in this moment. Serve Him with all your heart today. Don’t pick up the cross of the coming months. Today is hard enough, so live and be just for today.
2 Kings 25:30 (ESV) “and for his allowance, a regular allowance was given him by the king, according to his daily needs, as long as he lived.” See, you are a child of the King. But, you are so much like me, beautiful girl, that you tend to either focus on looking back at the mistakes you’ve made in the past or the mistakes or bad things that may come in the future.
So that’s why I am telling you this with all the love I have in my heart: Let go of the past and do not try and take up your cross (your burdens) of tomorrow. Just live, love, serve, and embrace right now, today.
I love you beyond words,
2 thoughts on “An Open Letter To My 16 Year Old Daughter”
You just brought a tear to my eye! Just thank you!
You are welcome! Thanks so much for taking the time to read and comment! 😉